Remembering Maya Angelou

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Julianne Malveaux 01Many people will remember Maya Angelou for her phenomenal career.  She was a true renaissance woman – an author, teacher, dancer, performer, radio personality and a producer.

I will remember her a sister friend, a wise “auntie” who didn’t mind pulling your coat. She was a generous spirit who made time for virtually any who asked, a gentle and kind spirit.

If you dropped by when a meal was being served, she asked you to sit down and enjoy the assembled company.  If you came and it was not the meal hour, she never hesitated to offer a cup of tea and a snack.

She knew before you did that you needed a hug an encouraging word.  I’ve seen her take the hat off her head and give it to someone who admired it.

She shared her work.  It was not unusual to sit at her working table and listen to a poem or some wisdom she was sharing.  Sitting at her table one day, I decided to put some of her words in my cell phone, thinking that I’d like to review them one day.  She very gently took the phone from me and told me, “Just listen. You don’t have to write everything down. I am giving you my undivided attention and I want the same from you.”  Properly chastened, I left the phone on the table for the rest of the visit.

Courage to love
Sister Maya loved people, genuinely and unconditionally. When asked about the greatest virtue, she said that it was courage, the courage to love.  She loved everyone, the pauper and the princess. She would often list the way she loved, mentioning the Black and White, the Asian and Latino, a one-eyed man and the woman who is missing a leg. And if you had the privilege of attending her Thanksgiving dinner, you saw exactly that – a rainbow of the people she loved.

Each year that I served as president of Bennett College in North Carolina, she visited the campus and gave a lecture to students.  Once, I asked her to spend time with the honor students and she told me, sharply.  “I would rather spend time with the students at the bottom. They are the ones who need encouragement.

That was Maya.

At the end of her life, Auntie Maya (which she asked me to call her) was frail. “Getting old ain’t for sissies,” she said. As Blame Bayne wrote on my Facebook page, “No longer caged, she forever sings.”  Ache Auntie Maya, Ache.

Julianne Malveaux is a Washington, D.C.-based economist and writer.

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